What a way to start my December.. I receive a very pleasant/early xmas gift from my mother -in law today elegantly wrapped in a small package . Nice things really do comes in small packages such as this:  A CHANEL earrings. Who can beat that? She must have love me that much for her to have thought of this beautiful and not to mention pricey gift to give me.

My husband was half jokingly envious of me coz he only receives a necktie. (KAWAWA NAMAN). Or maybe he’s pissed that he has to think of a gift that can beat that of his mom.

One of my favorite place in the house would be the TOILET/ COMFORT ROOM. Yes aside from our bedroom, the toilet is my little sanctuary. I have customized it as my reading room where all of my favorite magazines are all neatly stack in a magazine rack just easy for me to reach. I can do my daily discharge there while reading.  There are times  when call of nature is unavoidable while im  in the middle of watching some of my  favorite show or chatting so that would leave me no choice but to  bring my laptop and switch to wireless internet in there.

And I feel so lucky that the new house has current state of the art for Western-style toilets , the BIDET . In Japan, these bidets are commonly called washlets, a brand name of Toto Ltd., and include many advanced features rarely seen outside of Asia. Depending on the exact model, these bidets are designed to open the lid when they sense a user nearby, wash the anus or vulva of the user, dry afterwards with warm air, flush automatically and close the lid after use.

Yesterday marks our 4th year together as a couple and its incredible to look back and take notes on how much we continue to grow in each others arms each day. 

Today, i want to brag on my husband a bit. i want to tell you what’s so great about him, and encourage you to pray for the qualities that will make up your future husband. if you’re already married, it won’t hurt for you to take a minute and reflect upon your man’s good qualities.

my husband is a tender man, he’s sensitive to the things of the Lord, and he cares about others. he is generous. he is compassionate. he is humble. he is confident in who he is and is a hard-working man. he is fun-loving and adventurous. he likes to shop. he isn’t a picky eater. he takes care of our home and family in that old-fashioned, man’s man way while treating me with respect as an equal…his partner and wife. we laugh alot…i love that. he buys me gifts. he enjoys my femininity, understanding my needs and He truly loves to see me succeed in life; and is unbelievably happy when I do.  , and he even joined me at the spa for a massage.

i think i could go on and on…i hope you see how much i love him. i can’t imagine life without him. he is a partner in every way. i think it’s wonderful to have someone with which to share life. a husband is a gift from God! i’m glad i got one of the best. happy anniversary BABYKO

Just this morning during breakfast, Hubby asked me what to get me on our  Anniversary on Nov 3.  I was excited to the idea of being able to choose my own gift…. IDEAS IDEAS!!!!

1. KINDLE- this is a new gadget available at amazon that I really  wanted to have. This is the best gift I deserve to have since I love reading during my daily commute, toilet time, breaks and during my bath time while soaked in a warm bubbly water. With this gadget I can get books delivered wirelessly in less than 60 seconds; no PC required. Isnt that amazing….

My husband and I do celebrate 2 anniversaries in a year… April 11 is for our wedding anniversary and nov 3 is for when we first became a couple… Isnt it nice to have 2 anniversaries in a year?? That would also means 2 gifts in a row…

Im counting my blessings so I can appreciate those little or big things that is still pouring in…

1. Im blessed to see  God working  in so many ways in my life.  It is just amazed me knowing that theres a Savior out there who loves me much to deserve all this blessings.

2. Im blessed to have a wonderful, God fearing husband. Needless to say that I am way beyond blessed to have met this close to perfect man who loves me with all the many flaws i have. He makes sure I’m comfortable all the time, bring me snacks when I’m craving them, constantly asks me how I’m feeling, and the list goes on…

3. I am blessed to have a roof over my head, a comfortable bed, and food on our table everyday…

4. I am blessed to have a good career far beyond what I have dreamt of. And blessed on keeping the balance of family and career without having to choose which to prioritize.

5. I am blessed being sorrounded by friends and family who can tolerate my being a brat at times.

6. I am blessed to have enough money to share with others in need and buy the things I want for myself.

7. I am blessed to have a healthy life..

A year ago today was the saddest but today is the happiest.

 I was online around close noon last year when my cousin Susan PM  me if I  already called home or if i  was already informed by the sad news of my father’s death. It was as if I was soaked in a very cold water and the realization dont seem to sink in yet. And almost the same time today my brother PM me to tell me the good news of him passing the  Board exam.  I cant help but be caught between this big time emotions. There is something blocking my throat while typing this entry and its a mixed of everything.

How I wish Papa could still see these good things happening to us. I know that he’s smiling down on us seeing how successful me and bro had become. I know that he couldnt wish for more. A good father who created the best fruits that he can be proud of.  I still miss you Papa. Getting over you death is a personal journey. And the first few months  I handled it so poorly. But just when I started to pay close attention and start sharing it with others… I was becoming Ok. I think I finally did it by understanding that I would not “get over” it.  Because it isn’t something you “get over”.  It is something you respect.  When I lost Papa, He  touches the tenderest corner of my heart – and that tenderness is there to stay.  The grief won’t stay forever, but the tender spot will.

Even after death, you still chose to live in our hearts and be part of our daily lives. You have accompanied and guided Jun and was seen in a form of a big fat butterfly just like you (hehehe) during his exam. You were there in the conference room while I am delivering my big piece that marked my career. You were there with me at the US embassy to be like my invisible sponsor. I love you so much Papa…you will forever stay..

With the technology innovations nowadays and match with ones hectic life,  online shopping is one convenient innovations ever. Im one  self confessed online shopaholic. Not a day would passed for me not checking amazon japan or rakuten for online shopping. I just love the  feeling of getting good deals without sweating. Many of us shop online for convenience, it does save us some time from going to the mall to shop around. Life has become so hectic for me that shopping online has now become a norm.

October 2 (Friday) 7am- Ito ang day kung saan nakaschedule kami sa aming paglilipat sa bagong bahay. I already planned of calling the office na lang at sabihin na masakit ang kahit ano sa akin so I can help my husband with the moving thing. But sucks!!! Hindi pd si aking dakilang backup… kesyo may conference daw. So no choice kungdi pumasok. Morning pa lang di ako mapakali knowing na mag isa ang aking asawa sa paghahakot at may mga furniture deliveries din that day sa new house. So he has to travel around 45 minutes from our previous apartment to the new house. So kahit anong calculations ko di kakayanin na makaabot sya sa schedule date ng pag aantay sa delivery. So here comes the great actress… Nag email ako direct to the President at naka cc lahat ng bosing na masama ang aking pakiramdam at kailangan ko umuwi after lunch at mag work from home na muna ng half  a day. Umubra ang pagiging best actress ko at akoy lumipad na patungo sa aming bagong tahanan…

1PM-3PM: nakakailang balik na sa paghahakot ang aking asawa habang ako ay naghihintay sa bagong bahay para sa deliveries ng mg furnitures at appliances na inorder. Waiting Mode ang beauty ko habang nagliligpit… 2PM wala pa ang mga mokong na delivery man… bakit kaya? Aba nawala daw sila at wala pa sa car navi nila ang aming address. Nose bleed ako sa pag explain kung paano nila mararating ang aming bagong tahanan. sa wakas nakita din nila bandang 3PM na. Napakaeffecient nila sa pag-akyat ng mga malalaking items gaya ng queen size bed, sofa. ref, washing machine etc… ni hindi man lang sumagi sa mga dingding. At sila na din ang nag ayos sa dapat na kalagyan.. Magaling ang kanilang serbisyo… Bravo sa kanila.

4PM-6PM Kailangan na namin bumalik sa lumang bahay para sa iba pang malalaking gamit na kailangang dalhin at kailangan ihuli para may katulong ang aking asawa sa pagbubuhat. at sya namang dating ni Miomer galing office na syang magiging katulong sa pagbubuhat. Habang nagliligpit pa kami ng ibang kagamitan sa lumang bahay pinaidlip ko muna ang aking asawa para mag recharge ng energy pabalik sa new house.  And after 2 hours binuhat na nila ang pagkalaki laking tv na iningatan ng husto, dining table na super bigat na nakapack the IKEA way. mga beddings and all… Hanggang sa lumarga na kami at nagpasya na unti untiin na lang ang ibang maliliit na gamit na naiwan.

Pagdating ng bagong bahay bugbog ang aming mga katawan. Na kahit magbabad ako sa bathtub (ofuro) ng matagal feel ko pa din ang pagod. At akoy nakatulog ng 3am at maagang nagising kinabukasan dahil ako ay NAMAHAY SA AMING BAGONG BAHAY!!!

at marami pa

Here are the list of my Favorite HOME SHOPS

1. IKEA

On top of my list of course. Recently because of the new  house  I frequent  IKEA FUNABASHI twice a week and I love being there… I can browse their huge showroom all day and will go home with the same idea and furnitures I saw. All those assemble-yourself furnitures in IKEA is a good idea for those double beds or big sofa or dining tables that needs to enter a narrow stairs in the house to avoid all the scratch on the wall.

IKEA FUNABASHI

shopping for a new set of dining table and other stuffs

2. TOKYO INTERIOR

I can go to this same place every day of the year and still always find something new. They have a wide selection of different things for homes and they never runs out of something to amaze me.

hubby checking the price...

3. NITORI

If youre looking for quality mattresses, curtains, pillows, bed covers for a reasonable price, NITORI is the place to be. This is where I bought all my curtains and bed covers for the new house. They have a wide selection of cute curtain design that came in sets. I will definitely frequent this place from now on.

TO BE CONTINUED…