Checklist if I married my Ideal guy

June 21, 2011 insightsandeyesights

1. Good Looking. and attractive enough to make me want to make babies with him. Contrary to what a lot of people say, looks are very important. If you’re going to spend the rest of your life with one person, he might as well be eye candy. Well ehem ehem…. i love how he looks and all his eye candy features

2. Emotionally stable. I don’t want someone who’s depressed and who still cries about how his father didn’t make it to his kindergarten graduation ceremony like someone I knew from the past. I tend to become emotionally volatile so good thing i was able to find someone who is somewhat calm, rational, and sane to balance me out.

3. Intelligent and articulate. I don’t just want someone I can mate and procreate with. I need to be able to talk to him too. An intellectual connection is essential for marriage.

4. Faithful. Words cannot stress how important this is to me. I have a jealous streak and the notion that I’m not the most important woman in his life would just kill me. My ideal husband might  check out other women every now and then, but he never chases skirts. Ultimately he considers me a goddess among girls and he wouldn’t even think of sleeping with someone else.

5. FINANCIALLY STABLE. Being an ideal husband is not everything about  the pay check he brings home . But could at least be secure enough to raise a family. On this aspect, i think  I married my ideal guy.

6. HUMOR.  Laughter bonds people. Any good friend will tell you that laughter is the shortest distance between two people — especially in marriage. But one never knows what’s funny to others. This is very important as when all else fails , laughter  can survive everything. I feel lucky enough to have a humor machine in my husband. hehehehehe Wherever you are on this continuum of humor, one thing is certain: Laughter, on a daily basis, is like taking a vitamin for your marriage. And it is a healthy habit all loving couples enjoy.

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